Once you’ve gotten into an intimate conversation, you can progressively mix in heavier sexual questions with non-sexual questions.
You don’t have to talk about sex endlessly unless she seems really excited to.
You need to bring your conversations toward more intimate topics as an interaction progresses.
With a tipsy grin I shot back, “Oh please, we’re all adults here.
I stumbled over my words trying to explain myself, “Umm.. I’m sorry if it came off like that.” They told me how it weird and they weren’t going to answer a question like that. They initially gave me the same attitude, but this time the liquid courage gave me a comeback.
Of course, you don’t want to start with something extremely intimate.
That will come off as intense and discourage a woman from opening up. If she’s discussing them with you, you can move towards heavier ones.
“My friend and I just made a bet and we want you to settle it. ” I’d just read some pick-up advice that told me to approach girls in bars with that question. They even began debating each other and trying to argue their viewpoints playfully to me.
We all do it, it’s not a big deal.” As I awaited the wrath of three women, I was surprised to hear them laughing and sharing their opinions.So how do you approach the topic of sex tastefully? Stop waiting for permission to move into intimate topics.Very few women are going to lead it there or say “You can ask me about sex now!She may challenge you and put you on the spot about why you’re asking about this sensitive subject.The absolute worst things you can do are apologize or try to explain why you didn’t mean to be “weird”.All you’re going to do is reinforce that this subject is shameful and wrong.