Between sex and flying, we've covered the two most desirable features of dream control.The question is, are these erotic dreams really all they're cracked up to be? Because as all lucid dreamers know, a different set of rules operate inside the dreaming mind... But it's not all that to initiate sex in a lucid dream, and that's because our unconscious dreaming mind often has a different agenda.
More often than not, they are meaningful representations of your inner self and they deserve to be treated with respect.If you go around abusing dream figures, be prepared to be sorely disappointed when, at any moment, they have the ability to turn your sexy dream into a lucid nightmare.Sometimes, however, it's purely in the mind - although this doesn't make it any less real to the dreamer in their super-sensory lucid dream environment.There's also heaps of anecdotal evidence to show that men who experience a lucid dream orgasm also ejaculate in real life.In this way, lucid dreaming sex isn't ideal for beginners.
You'd do far better to learn the ropes of dream control and understand how to stabilize your dream so that when exciting things do happen, you don't accidentally wake up.The problem many beginners find is that it's difficult to hold onto conscious lucidity until the critical moment.Sexual lucid dreams are highly arousing and beginners often wake up before the experience has really got going.Lucid dream sex is often the #1 reason that motivates people to learn to control their dreams.Lucid dream control means being able to fulfill your ultimate fantasies, often just as tangibly and vividly as waking life.Let's say you're attracted to someone you know in real life who's not your romantic partner. Having erotic dream sex with someone you know in real life might just increase your attraction to them, rather than satisfy it. Are you fantasizing over them with the underlying desire to hook up in real life?