The other three girlfriends require you to contact them by using the in-game internet.
Carmen and Kiki each have a profile on and Alexandra on in the "Party girl seeks man for NSA fun and blog material"- topic.
For your first date, you should wear decent clothes and drive a decent vehicle, however each girlfriend has different preferences.
Bloody clothes, hurting/killing innocent people - none of this will make your girlfriend any happier. You can do this by simply finding her in your phone, clicking her name and choosing 'Dump girlfriend'.You'll still be able to meet her again via the same website a few days later.As long as her 'Like' percentage is above 60%, you can keep using this special ability.If it drops below 60%, you won't be able to use it until you've had sex with her again.Putting in a little bit of time to raise the fondness of the girlfriends can unlock their "special abilities"; these can help in particularly difficult missions late in the game.
Like the other relationships that Niko has with his friends in GTA IV, favor can be gained with girlfriends by taking them to different venues around the city.
She'll usually just picture her face the first time, but the second time it's a photo of her slip or behind.
Carmen and Alex do this because they think they're sexy and want to arouse Niko, while Kiki usually does this because she's jealous. Like she tells Niko on their first date, she's fond of blogging and has her own blog named Liberated women on
Notes: Dating women from the internet has it's advantages.
After having sex with one of them for the first time, she'll call you to tell you she might be able to help you with specific things, might you need them (like filling your health by calling her).
You can take your date to various spots in Liberty City and Alderney.