Don’t forget, your interests and hobbies make you unique and special.
A godly girlfriend keeps seeking God’s will for her life.
Don’t get me wrong, hearing your boyfriend’s compliments or hearing how he feels is great, and he should definitely express he cares for you, but be careful if that brings a smile to your heart more than knowing God, who created you, loves you more and thinks you’re far more beautiful than any man could. Be Encouraging Since a godly girlfriend’s Christ-centered, she’s able to encourage her boyfriend in his relationship with God.It’s as simple as saying, “Ok, we’re going to end hanging out earlier tonight because I need time with God ” or “What’d you learn at church today?It is time for Christians to start talking about dating. Establishing principles for Christian dating will set men and women on a course towards Christ-centered marriages. Here are 10 important principles for Christian dating. That would make God a gambler, and the Bible clearly says gambling is from the devil (only joking). Marriage isn’t as much about finding someone totally compatible as it is about committing to someone despites difficulties and differences. I fear this mentality in the dating culture is actually promoting divorce. Suddenly, when marriage begins, you are asked to flip a switch. It allows you to jump into marriage with a clear conscience. The trajectory of lives and eternities are in the balance. Laying out guidelines for dating as followers of Jesus will alter lives by keeping people out of toxic and unhealthy relationships (and ultimately marriages). “The one” says you need to find the perfect person. The beauty of marriage is God sustains you despite your flaws. The shells of a shotgun are stuffed with tiny round balls. You are asked to go from a mentality that says “End a relationship as soon as difficulty arises,” to one that says, “Don’t end the relationship regardless of the difficulty that arises.” That’s a tough switch to flip. Get yourself a devotional or Bible study-guide, and make it a point to unwrap the beauty of God’s word as a couple.
Not only will this deepen your personal relationships, but it will always help you and your significant other grow closer to Christ.PRAY TOGETHER I believe that those who pray together will stay together.And while prayer might be one of those things some view as a private act, I’d encourage you to open up and start praying with whoever you try to deepen your relationship with.Not only will you be able to see each serve in ways of selflessness, but it will be a great opportunity to see each other get used by the hand’s of God.WORSHIP TOGETHER Whether you are at a local church, conference or sitting in your living-room, worshipping God is available no matter the circumstance.Until I was engaged, I didn’t make my plans the same as Alex’s. When these 3 things are in check and God is the center of your dating life then the dating road will be a lot less bumpy.