He is great at communicating his feelings to me, and although we’ve never had the “relationship talk” I’ve never felt the need to have it because he shows all the signs of a great boyfriend.
He’s a fantastic and committed single dad who has his 5-year-old son 50% of the time; he and his ex-divorced several years ago.She has struggled with addiction, thus making co-parenting a bit of a struggle at times. He’s truly wonderful; he’s kind, thoughtful, treats me with so much respect.This isn’t about whether he wants to marry you; that information will take a few years to suss out.But you should both pay attention to his profile (which plainly states his intentions) and pay attention to his words. In your particular case, while you couldn’t possibly know if you have what it takes to last 40 years as a couple, you should know if he wants more than this.2. You have two separate questions: First, “do you ever want to get married again?I want a boyfriend that is able to invest in a serious relationship with me.
I think he wants that too, but I don’t know if 4 months is too early to expect that of him because he needs to move slower than a childless man.
First of all, I want more time with him (more than once a week); I understand that he wants to be very cautious about bringing people into his son’s life, and that means there’s less time for he and I to spend together.
However, I want a serious relationship that is continuously growing.
I can also assure you that there are millions more who have found a way to make things work in a second marriage, so if this guy can’t give you what you need, don’t be afraid of looking elsewhere for a man who can.
Please come back and let us know what transpires, okay? I too am dating a perfect-for-me man who is a divorced dad I’ve been friends with for decades.
Otherwise, you’re right: all the best communication skills and purest intentions in the world don’t change the fact that you have a once a week guy on your hands.3. You’re a couple looking for a solution and a good boyfriend wants to make his girlfriend happy.