Dating your friend with benefits

"And I'm never staying past nine at any guy's house again.

In any relationship there is always one person who wants to spend more time with the other.

Do no-strings-attached relationships ever end well? An admittedly far stretch from its Shakespearian derivative, you've got to admit that this question requires some serious thought.

"After he left, I was suddenly repulsed — not by his penis, but by his personality and the night as a whole.And I actively avoid his texts and calls to this day."2. You better take that into consideration before getting it on with someone you can't imagine your life without.One person may have just started hooking up because it was fun and it turned into a hardcore crush.The other might be hooking up with multiple people and is already on the fence about what you're doing.until she found out that he was dishing about their sexcapades all over the place."He told all of our friends that I squirted, and now they refer to my vagina as 'The Holy Grail' and have nicknamed me 'Squirtle,' after the Pokémon character." Yeah, consider that friendship (benefits or no benefits) officially over.3.

It's possible to maintain the friendship after the sex.Eventually, I had to tell him that I couldn't keep hooking up with him if the relationship was never going to amount to anything.He told me that he loved me as a person, but couldn't commit the time to a relationship for academic reasons.For looser relationships it's often pretty obvious.When it comes to hooking up with someone regularly, one person is often more into it than the other.When Jamie realized that she and her guy friend Ben shared similar sexual appetites, she decided that it was worth a shot to invite him to visit her at school to see where the night took them."I instantly regretted it," she said.