His seduction techniques are often subtle and well-practiced - It will seem he did nothing to seduce you until you look back and analyze it.He sat and stood close to you, he brushed against you, but it didn't seem to be on purpose.
Your partner will play into this, claiming that other people are just jealous of what you have or are just trying to bring you two down. For example, if someone hurts them, they feel they have a right to retaliate.If a teacher fails them, or a coworker says something bad about them, they feel entitled to revenge.He'll turn on all the charm full force and you'll be wanting him from then on, yet wanting some breathing room. He starts using the lines technique - Once you're "seeing" each other, he'll be a real swain, discussing how amazing this new relationship is, how different you are from any woman he ever met; and he'll talk about your remarkable beauty and how "alike" you are. He will whine and even shed tears - if you say you have other things to do, other people to see, or want to be alone after seeing him 8 days in a row.He will talk about your "resonance" and describe all the awful women he knew before who didn't want a good man - who wanted someone to abuse them. He enjoys being abused, so if you scream at him it only makes him feel more secure.But if you agree to even one meeting it will be back to daily visits and demands for constant pampering again.
Getting Rid of the Bastard The only way to get rid of the emotional blackmailer is when he has found another victim to be his patsy.
He will "seem" to accept your decision to break up - As the months roll along and you are tired of his constant presence, begging, whining and having unreasonable control of your life, you will decide to break up with him.
He will then agree to back off, give you some space, and try to do better.
They might lose their temper in the middle of a restaurant because they think you are flirting with the waiter. You’re not always sure what the problem is, but things never add up. If you follow what they say, things still don’t get better.
They might bring up personal issues at inappropriate times. If you work hard to fix one thing, they will find something else that is wrong. They always have an excuse or a story or someone to blame: someone caused them to act the way that they did.
Even if you were perfect, your partner would make you out to be completely messed up. They can be funny, easy-going, exciting, attractive. You feel a pull to them, and they make you feel special. They act as if they are the smartest, hottest, richest or most successful person and everyone knows it. You did something wrong first to make them explode.