The most difficult marital problems today are Internet pornography adultery, and sexual fantasy.Most women feel that pornography is akin to adultery.
Sex addicts on the Internet often experience a rapid progression of their addiction.
The new sexual thrills lead to spending huge amounts of time, moving more quickly into more extreme behaviors, taking greater risks, and getting caught more frequently.
Most women report a loss of security in their relationship and believe that they have been living a lie.
They feel that the future of the marriage is at risk, many want to leave the marriage. The beginning of most sexual addictions are formed long before adulthood, so the addictions are carried into marriage.
The internet fills a need for "more, easier and better." For the cybersex addict, increasing amounts of time are spent "surfing," downloading, creating files, masturbating, reading information posted on sexual bulletin boards, exchanging sexual information live with others in sexual chat rooms or via computer cameras, or directing their own live sex shows on interactive sites--in short, looking for what's new, what's better than last time.
The Internet has become the newest, most rapidly growing form of sexual acting out for many sex addicts.When I confronted him, he didn't understand why I was upset.He said that having sex online was harmless and a way to "get off" without breaking his marriage vows (we've been married 10 years). A: This is a situation I see more and more often as the Internet becomes a staple in homes. He was looking at porno, again,” reports a counseling client. The blue green glow of the computer made him look diseased.None of these strategies work and actually add to the problem.